baddessi: The question to which 'pass me a spoon was the answer' was my, 'will you muck out the stables for me if I bought you a new microwave?'

Did anyone ask about the tea cozy???

NOT a floosie: I'm intrigued by the 'pass me a spoon' answer. It's gotta be ice cream! And I think you should share!!!!

NOT a floosie: LOLOL

Tuesday: Yours was one of the easiest ones.

Here's a preview of the answers.

yes
no
no
I think so.
CLAY...stop that!
yup
ok
pass me a spoon
wooohoooo!
Take a number.

:o)

I was rather hoping that everyone would forget about it!

NOT a floosie: Wednesday? You're not getting any younger you know. It's been a while since you had one of the starring roles in the film, Cocoon.

NOT a floosie: hurry Floose! I don't know how much longer I can hold my breath!!!

Backoff: HA! It's almost done. I've been working 6 days a week lately. I'm hoping to get it sent back to Harley on Wednesday.

ArtfulDodger: The Flame Pit is not the cave, the cave was brought back... it was unbanned.

Backoff: People were banned for what was said in the cave so it does matter, apparently, even if the person's that are talked about aren't present.

Backoff: Not True Backoff!!!!

I was booted and BANNED from the Flame! Why? Because I violated your "rules." Simple. I was censored.

Walter Montego: Yes a few of the members are avid about it and thats fine.

When I left, I had hoped that would have ended the belittling of me by the few in the f/s that seem to enjoy that.

I wanted only a reasonable and meaningful discussion of the pros and cons. It wasn't my intentions of starting WWIII

Out of respect to Harley and Pedro I am done with the subject until perhaps a later date when everyone can remain civil and have an open discussion.

ClayNashvilleTn: I fail to see what your problem is Clay. The title of that particular fellowship clearly states what it is about. No censorship is one thing, but I assume that it is still moderated. Standoff said you left the fellowship, so that's the end of that.

As for all your worries, I can't imagine that obscure fellowship having any effect on anyone. If you don't like it, then don't join it. I can't say if I'd like it or not as I'm not joining it anyways. Let's assume for the sake of argument that someone in there is badmouthing me. I have to ask, so what? I'm not a member, so I don't read the post. If I was a member the very nature of that particular fellowship allows me to lash out if I want to, or just rebut the nasty post concerning myself. I could also leave the fellowship if I was a member and grew tired of such things. Since you've left the fellowship, why are you trying to impose your moral judgment on those that remain or restrict someone that might actually have fun and enjoy such a wide open and ranging fellowship? Judging from the number of posts in the short time since I asked if you were a member of said fellowship, I'd say you've struck a nerve with the members of that fellowship. I agree with Pedro, and in fact think that such a fellowship probably brings in more members that it might cause to leave. It certainly can't hurt to have a place to vent one's anger at the system and could indirectly lead to positive change in some cases. Even though I doubt if I'd be offended by the carrying ons of the fellowship, those that are can do just as I have, don't join it.

ClayNashvilleTn: I understand that, Clay. But PMs are a better instrument for that purpose, in my opinion.

Pedro Martínez: I agree with everything you said. My intention was not to raise people Pedro. I just want the to stop raising me behind my back.

Thanks for the comments.
I'll yield to You and Harley.

I nominate (A..Z) Chessmaster1000, Clay, Nobleheart and Pedro, Walter Montego.

Andre Faria: They used arrows originally!!

ClayNashvilleTn: Clay, please, stop it. Flame pit was created and designed with the view that people WILL be offending and hurting each other there. Anyone who can't stand it can leave. Plus he/she can put anyone on the enemies list. I don'r see how the Flame Pit is hurting the BK. You don't have to read what's being said there and you'll be just fine. Stop trying to raise people.

Just one dart??????

harley: Firstly a period for nominations (including self-nominations) and then the voting stage. People could perhaps pose a question or two along with their nomination.

Why only a list of names? Why not line the people up and throw a dart?! (JOKE!)

baddessi: Ah, Ok. Thanks :)

Andre Faria: I think to vote on the next person to be interviewed. I like your suggestion backoff

harley:Harley I have tried to word my statements w/o offense.

If others that can't seem to ask them to cease.

Please show me where my questions are personal?

Put everyones name on a list a throw darts at it!!!!

harley: to vote on what?

Backoff, floosie has her questions and is pondering the best way to answer them!

That reminds me, I did see the discussion about how people are chosen, I didn't have time to reply at the time - sorry.
Up to now I guess it has been me and Fencer who has decided, but I'm open to new ideas of how to choose someone. Someone mentioned a poll, that would be good but how would a short list be chosen for people to vote on?

harley: Back to my interviews question....

Nicely said Harley

edited to comply with the wishes of upper management.

OK guys this is getting personal now. Please stop this discussion, the flame pit is within the rules and anyone who is offended can leave.

Backoff:There have been numerous people relentlessly attacked by name to the point they have left BK.

How can it unless someone is going around and telling what is said there. Are you saying someone is doing that? Who?

ClayNashvilleTn: Ok please tell me who it is hurting and offending. To know what is being said in there, you have to be a member of the fellowship. Anyone that joins gets warned up front what the manner of uncensored discussion is. Please explain to me where this is comming from. I'm really tired of seeing this nonsense all over the site.

Backoff:Please discuss what sounds to me as reasonable points? Are you concerned if the Flame Pit is hurting and needlessly offending members ?

I'm done with this. Bye now.

Because of the uniqueness of this site,(anything goes) I think it needs some type of special intervention.

I do not even believe the Big Boss realizes the damage it does to BK and if he did I honestly think he would reconsider his ground rules.

On a very different side note, I was just looking at the interviews and a certain blue-haired womans is still missing.....

clay how many boards are you going to start this trash on ? ..just so i know which will be a waste of time looking at for the next 24 hours.

Clay: I've never heard of the Flame Pit. We can't discuss it without knowing what it is, what's going on, etc.

Wish me luck ..... I'm going in. ;-)

Backoff: No, I am not the only one that has a problem. I may the only one with the courage to bring it up, anyone that dares point out your policies will receive like treatment as well, but what I have already experienced while I was in there on two separate occasions has toughened my skin to the point that I think I can handle it now.

ClayNashvilleTn: It's not breaking any BK rules, the only time it even comes close to it is when people take stuff from there and bring it onto the public boards. None of the members there do that.

In reply to your question: "is it not possible for Mgmt to at least require a rule that no one is to make up false and erroneous information without them being a part of the f/s?"

This would be very difficult to do. If actual names weren't used, people would get around that by nick-names or descriptions.
The person being talked about would have to find out about any information posted about them in a fellowship - and then who can tell if something is false or not? Its a very difficult request to honour, even if these rules were in place.

Walter Montego: He was and he left. Like I said before, anyone can join, just ask

Before you start a witch hunt on yet another DB, can I point out that 1) Anyone is free to join there and 2) you seem to be the only one that has a problem.

ClayNashvilleTn: Are you a member of that fellowship?