red dragon: He asked for help from Fencer about him being banned on a board where you are moderator. You felt the need to pipe in and tell him that changing his name might help his situation. Just doesnt sound right to me, thats all.

If you dont think that moderators, including yourself, dont allow any personal opinions to influence your moderating decisions, then you need to rethink your capacity to be a moderator in the first place. IMHO.