would say "Oh, sorry. Ne'er mind!" when she was told that something was not right that she said - I found the decline function - like I said, my thinking abilities come and go.

if there was an option to decline an invitation to a non-stairs/non-tournament/non-club-challenge game especially when it is obvious when the person doing the inviting did not read the profile of the person they are inviting or they would not have invited the invitee that particular type of game. I just had this happen where someone invited me and I cannot find a way to decline the game without playing it out and I do not see it as being very fun for either of us because of my difficulty with this particular type of game and my ability for that type of game and its variants wavers unpredictably from bad to just terrible depending on how my autoimmune disorders are playing with my brain (most games other than chess and its variants are somewhat easier for my brain to keep up with for some reason maybe because all of the pieces move in the same way as all of the other pieces as the other pieces aka all checkers pieces move on diagonals while in chess rooks move in a different way from a bishop etc). This is not a complaint about how the chess games are played because they are ancient games that are played in the same ways all over the world, just stating the facts about my ability to play them and my seeing a need to be able to decline an invite before the game is started like I have seen as an option on other sites.