Perhaps the same lecture directed at your friends would have some results. Don't count on it. LOL. They have more fellowships than I so they must fancy themselves leaders. It went back to the KM where so many of them drank deeply from the poison cup and then "confessed" about half of what they did..blaming the rest on me. Yes you did suffer scorn James but it was in a huge part orchestrated by those you now speak for. Maybe it is you who has leadership qualities. I think you do. In all the wrongful things that were said about you I don't ever recall your marital status being considered fair game. This comes at me from people who don't know any more than they have been fed. When people ask me to be contrite my reply is first, last and always "kiss my ass." We want to be left alone but everytime I post anywhere the site busybody is on with a nasty remark. His loss, my gain.