Pbarb2: I wasnt complaining of cheating.... it is just a flaw in the game that sometimes we are unable to play a turn and it is possible to take advantage of that, and that is not really in the spirit of the intention of this game. For example, if we were to all play a live game in the same room, nobody would ever miss a turn and it would not ever be part of the game at all.... just one of the flaws of playing online.
I wouldnt get too upset about people talking about these games either.... some people just have very competitive natures, and for us it IS fun to have this type of banter, as long as it doesnt go so far as to ruin it for others :)