SlamDance13, I will answer your sensible questions.

Yes we have backgammon here.
No, you cannot curse.
Yes, you can speak freely as long as you respect that this is a family site and this board is for "everybody who is interested in BrainKing.com itself, its structure, features and future", not to listen to you bad-mouth GoldToken or any individual.
No, you cannot make personal attacks on this board.
Membership details are listed fully and clearly under the "paid membership" section.
If you are banned it is Fencer's decision, and I can assure you, if you did get banned it would be entirely your own fault. Fencer does not ban people on a whim. Maybe you shouldn't buy membership until you have settled here.

There is another board where you can 'speak freely', that is called "general chat", but even there you cannot curse.
This is a lovely site with great people and with the right attitude you will be very happy here.
Welcome to BK, I hope you can stay :o)