Becky4: how can anyone be sure in any f/s such as the flame pit which has links to porn and vulgar chat? you can't, but that's where the parents that buy these kids memberships that give access to adult content, when they buy them memberships they are responsible to see to it that they don't join adult f/s and mine clearly state that you have to be at least 18 to join. That's all I can do the rest is up to the parents to supervise their children.