Kunoichi: we all made that mistake when we became rooks ... just like dog who manage open the closet which holds their food .. the first time they will gulp everything inside and be sick for a couple of days :)

i also know that i join too many new games and tournaments when i come back from a vacation .. i am bad at self control sometimes :)

there is no other option than playing them, letting them time out, resigning them, or arranging a draw with your opponents :)