bwildman - I've read a little about what had happen (with the word beer and such), and there is one rule that you and everyone has to remember.
The BIG BOSS is in charge of a fellowship, and if they do not want certain subject, words, users, games, etc... in their fellowship, then it is their right to ask for it not to be there. I mean we can debate for months about what is approprate and such, but that rule is always rule #1 - and if the BIG BOSS says no, then no, it is not allowed there.