does anybody else feel this way......why do we have to get a message to tell us that "you have won the round bonus"

I know that when i play the games as it says so on the top LOLOL

TOday i had 16 PM's telling me that I had won...it (to me) is a nuisance and the only person that sees it is me...the Pond instigator doesnt care, so why does it happen.....waste of resourses to my way of thinking......I dont min the "you have fell in the pond" ones because that lets me know when i have been dissed LOLOLOL....any thougghts on this?