You pick up this bad habits, you stand no chance to play on life game, of course this is your personal habits, and this is my personal opinion. playing on line is a less serious form of playing the game. turnbased is the most less serious, it belong to a special category.
computeropponen: Your endless posts are not constructive. Sometimes people complain their opponents don’t move fast enough, sometimes they complain others in a tournament don’t move fast enough but I have never seen anyone complain that a game they are not involved in at all is not going fast enough. The answer if you are involved is always the same, choose a time control you are happy with, don’t accept time limits that you don’t like. If you are not involved as has been said many times already it is nothing to do with you. To expect players to play at a speed that suits you as a spectator is arrogance, it is their game they can do what they want.
It has been pointed out repeatedly that sites do exist that specialise in Chinese chess and provide real time play. Brainking is not that and endless moaning about it won’t change it. Brainking provides a product that the members want, if you want something else, it exists, go elsewhere.
If you feel a need to post on this site regularly despite not playing any games have a look at Son of Monse’s posts on the Tablut board as an example of constructive on topic posts about a game a member is interested and informed about.