Well it seems I’ve been misunderstood on my remarks regarding fellowships that are being self-labeled as "negative". My intention with my post was not to analyze the ability of the members to enjoy what they do in these fellowships. There is no forcing anyone to participate in any interaction and any that do participate in these "negative" fellowships, do so out of their own free will.

My comments were focused in a slightly different light. I'm not debating the pleasure received out of indulging in uncivilized conversations. I am however, stating that it’s a shame that adults cannot find a way to resolve conflict and express differences in a well behaved way.

Do friends talk smack and poke fun – of course they do. Should people who genuinely dislike each other have the right to say and express negative opinions in any and every sort of vulgar way possible? NO! That’s my issue. That’s the reason for my post. “Civilized society” is an ideal I admit. I admit I would prefer to live in a world where people were decent. However, that’s not the case – and it’s a shame that even an online gaming site like this gets infected by those who cannot or at least choose not to moderate themselves or exhibit a decent level of self control.

What is considered by some as entertainment may in fact be damaging to the spirit and personality of others. It’s irresponsible to say that free speech means you are free to be as rude as you like. The current state of society is a result of acceptable norms. Instead of wallowing in the muck of derogatory remarks, which further lower the acceptable norms, why isn’t the focus on building stronger relationships, having fun, and resolving conflict in a productive manner?

Tying in the reason this is on the fellowship board…. I encourage all BK users to participate in fellowships. They are a great way to find a niche in an online community. I caution all of you who find these “negative” fellowships entertaining. I’m voicing my concern that you could be damaging your own spirit and lowering your personal acceptable norms by requesting memberships.