playBunny: wha happened . i miss something.?? i think because of the anonominity of the board ,some people are apt to vent.personally on this board i myself don`t see why .i can see on a political board or philosophy,even sports things can get heated up. as long as you`re not cursed at,or otherwise slandered or defamed it might be good for the digestive juices. the thing is something you say in passing or think is a casual remark may push someones buttons .flaming thats an interesting way of putting it. intentionaly an obvious intent to get someones goat i agree is wrong. but how is 1 to know.??? i think we`re adults & we should expect a little criticism given in the right spirit.i`ve written a couple of times as a rookie & was helped by quite a few people. well thats my 2 cents as ireally don`t know what occured. now some may write back mind your own biz. or something to that effect. is that flaming me??? its a ticklish situation at best. mook53lhd