playBunny: There's an attitude which I truly and wholeheartedly despise and it's the traffic-warden mentality that "It says so in the rules therefore I don't have to think or exercise any judgement at all. I can act just like a robot and be correct according to what it says here". If you take that position in anything where human judgement could be employed you have thrown away any chance of my respect.
Nobody is trying to say that if asked to do so, they shouldnt comply to the request to play out their moves.
rather, that there is nothing wrong with not wanting to comply either!
Thats where I am coming from, and i am also along for the laugh