I try not to complain about this site as my husband and I both like playing on it. I have read a few of the messages on here and notice there is some talk about family members playing on this site. First of all, ratings/rankings do not matter to either myself or my husband. We play for fun just as Antje and Ms.Delete said. I use to play on IYT and I did not like it there. The owner of the site was rude and some of the players there were not very nice either. A member from IYT got my husband and I on to this site and we like it very much. We pay our membership dues just as others on this site. There are times that I sign up for tournaments just as my husband does and we may get placed together and we may not. If there is going to start being a problem with husbands and wives playing on this site even though they are paying members and occasionally play against each other then I will make sure that I will not play on this site any more in order for my husband to be able to play. He enjoys the games here as do I but I would rather him play then me. I feel that if this rule is enforced there will be a lot of people dropping out and I don't think Fencer and/or Liquid could afford for that to happen!