Walter Montego: Could things be changes for the beter? The answer to that is probable always.

But for how things are now, a solution already in place is the fellowship boards. There are many fellowships which are open to just about any knight or rook to join, and have warnings placed right in the description that it is for more non-family talk. There are at least a couple that are for any type of discussion, and I believe a couple that are around just for non-family type jokes which some may be offended by on the public boards.

As far as I know, those fellowship will accept just about anyone as long as they do not get offended easly.