I think it must be too difficult to have the option to remove players once the game has begun, since even Fencer himself has not removed players who have been already removed from the whole web site, yet are still in the pond games.
(hide) If you want to play a game with an opponent of a similar level, you can define a required BKR range for a new game invitation. Then nobody with a BKR outside this range will be able to see/accept it. (Katechka) (show all tips)