435152: If you do not want to play games where your opponet has 10 days to make a move then I suggest you do not make or accept them.
You have some interesting comments to make but continual whinging is not one of them. Further whinges about playing times and the the like will be edited or deleted.
(hide) If you want to play a game with an opponent of a similar level, you can define a required BKR range for a new game invitation. Then nobody with a BKR outside this range will be able to see/accept it. (Katechka) (show all tips)