Please keep things positive. Best advise I believe is to try out different sites. Find what works well for you. If you don't like it, don't go back and try another site. Nothing says you only have to play on 1 site. At one time, I played on about 6 different turn-based game sites.
register at chessfordollars.com then find forums then find Other Chess Sites then find the 8th post on page 2 (it wouldn't hurt to see the entire topic either imo) happy hunting
(kaŝi) Se vi ne volas ke aliaj uzantoj scius kion vi faras, tiukaze vi povas ŝalti kaŝitan statuson en Agordoj (nur pagantaj membroj). (pauloaguia) (Montri ĉiujn konsilojn)