Please keep things positive. Best advise I believe is to try out different sites. Find what works well for you. If you don't like it, don't go back and try another site. Nothing says you only have to play on 1 site. At one time, I played on about 6 different turn-based game sites.
ScorpionOct64: MSN games has a few card games. Real time, of course, not turn based. I particularly like Hearts there. There aren't that many multi player card games there, though. But if you like live Hearts, I recommend that.
(kaŝi) Se vi volas ludi kontraŭ ludanto de simila nivelo, vi povas difini intervalon de BKR ĉe invito al nova ludo. Tiukaze neniu kun BKR ekster tiu intervalo povos vidi/akcepti ĝin, (Katechka) (Montri ĉiujn konsilojn)