computeropponen: Sorry to hear this. But on this site we basically play correspondence chess, not OTB. So it is perfectly normally to set up the position on your board at home and play through a few ideas before you decide on a move. It is also normal to look at the board and decide you have no idea how to proceed, so wait and see if you feel more inspired the next day. At least for me anyway!
(kaŝi) Se vi volas saluti iun en ties denaska lingvo, provu nian 'vortaron de ludanto', en la ligo "pli pri lingvoj" sub la flagoj. (pauloaguia) (Montri ĉiujn konsilojn)