AbigailII:   I am playing him too and am having the same problem.  Since the beginning of the year, he's used up most of his vacation days delaying tourneys and delaying individual games.  He's at 14 left for the year.  At this rate, he'll have used his entire year in less than two months.   Many have complained so I hope there will a stop to this so no additional vacation days can be purchased by anyone for  any reason.  If 35 days isn't enough, then people ought to play fewer games or be forced to lose.  6 moves in 6 months should be an automatic loss for the offender.