On the suggestion of another player, I came looking. I answered open invitations, left offers myself. Allwere deleted by players simply because I was not on-line when they were! (I asked two!) I have a paging system linking computer to mobile, so I dont keep people waiting too long, I am battling serious illnesses, and side effects to drugs involved, and so am a little slow sometimes, but the time-limit was totally ignored by players here. I was never given a chance. If this is typical I wont bother again!