Fencer: When you gave me your "promise" to add autopass, there was no restrictions such as "only if your opponent agrees".

Autopass should be  my choice as well as no autopass is my opponents choice.

Now you dont give us autopass lovers any choice, if the opponent says no then so be it.

So, again, If this is the only way you can make autopass work, then forget it completely.

This rule will only create a mess!