DeaD man WalkiN: My condolences ... the only thing that comes to my mind now is: life has no opposites and down, deep inside we live forever ... what dies is only our physical body, our immortal body of soul moves from area of mind to another ... what looks like death is not  death at all ... it's illusion caused by our attachement to the external manifestation of the universal mind ... think about your grandson as still existing in simple another realm ... and you will meet him one day ... hope it helps you ... I am with you,

take care,

Andy.