is this a discuss board?
it would be very short discussion. what is the subject?

if people agree with each other, there will be no discuss at all.
i don't recall any other your post to me. sorry abt that.

crosseyed: i am in the same situation as you. what i have talked about all based on the fact.
people consider me as a complainer. what i sugguest that you better say something good about this site. don't forget for the owner of this site, it is bussiness he has to make every one happy.

Aganju:
i don't pay much attention to the x control, it does not mean i don't CARE abt it.

crosseyed:
before you speak or speak up, you better say this is the best site to post on and play game.
if you are not a complainer.

rabbitoid: my opponent time left is 42 days and 15 hours per MOVE, not per GAME.
if he move exactly like that, it will take more than a year may be two to finish one game.
what a long game!!
i don't like a blitz game, what i want is a reasonable chess game
what is fast action or slow snail action? you tell me.

i don't pay much attention to the time control here. once i accepted an invitation to play a chess game, my opponent moved quickly and i like it, i hate people move slowly to make me sick.
during the game my wife called me to pick her up,when i came back i found out that i had only 30 min vs his 1 hr 35min, first i was very surprised then i realized the x was set up for 3 hrs per game that i did not know abt it. i lost the game under x pressure.
now i get the idea how to invite people to play the game i wanted. set the X CONTROL PER GAME

how to invite someone for waiting game?

Hrqls: no one is a cheater here, only suspect of cheating. you don't know what the guy is doing. how can you prove it?
when my opponent logout after seeing my move every time, i know what is going on, he may not use a computer program, but i am sure that he is looking for some help, most likely he try to find the move by trail and error method. when he find his move on the board and login again.
the reason is: he has no ability to see the move over the board.