Thanks for your thoughts BBW! Within the year and half that my husband and I have played on this site we may have played 4 maybe 5 games total. As for as trying to cheat the ratings, I wouldn't even know how to. Don't care to cheat and it would be a shame if there is someone out there that is trying to do that! The funny part of playing against my husband is I have beat him in a few games and all we do is laugh about it! That is the fun of the game, not trying to cheat the rating system.