when I go to my profile and want to invite a "person" to a game of Triple Dice Poker 6D it isnt on the drop down list...

When I go to the rules of this game and go to invite a "friend" she comes up on my "friends online list" on the right hand side but she isnt on the list of "friends" for this game.

When I type in her name to invite her to this game she isnt on the list when I do a search....what is wrong? is it just me...Probably, but she cant invite me either.

I do have this marked as a preferential game both top and bottom on the games lists