Walter Montego: I presume that your post was directed at me? me being 'her'????
In the first instant, what I have told you is absolute truth. And it is the reason that I support moderated discussions here - which is a feature of this site and is therefore very much 'on topic' if there were to be any decisions about it becoming unmodrated like IYT.

You can check IYT - however, the public posts only stay there for a few days. I saved a message from the perpertrator who, after hurling his abuse at all and sundry in public then did it to me in private. He then told me he was joining this site.