Oh I agree, with you and I understand, but also think that the 'bad guys' can use this feature as well. They can be online and you never know it and still do their thing. I am not tracking you, but I watch for the little red numbers saying there are new messages and go there. I am really sorry that this happened to you and I can understand what you are saying. But I am also saying that just like guns, just because you take them away from the lawabiding citizens doesnt mean that you take it away from the crook. In other words, we follow the rules and only use it sometimes where as they would do it all the time and it would be harder to know if they were online and you could continue to fear to post. Am I making sense?