"Youll soon find out if you on it, when you try to send a message etc. So no need to show it really"

... well then in that case, there is really no need either for the spying "what are people doing at this time" - since you can just wait and find out sooner or later what they have done anyway!

All I'm saying is if this site is going to be a site where you can spy on what others are doing, lets open up the friends/enemies list also!