Please keep things positive. Best advise I believe is to try out different sites. Find what works well for you. If you don't like it, don't go back and try another site. Nothing says you only have to play on 1 site. At one time, I played on about 6 different turn-based game sites.
I tried it for a bit of time around 2 years ago.. I was referred there by sLaMdAnCe.. then I didn't have the money to get a membership.. that was kewl.. then about a year ago I had someone ask me back there.. and unfortunately they thought I said something bad against the site.. Heck.. I can't remember the details.. but, I sure the heck don't need that .. thank goodness I hadn't bought a membership..