Please keep things positive. Best advise I believe is to try out different sites. Find what works well for you. If you don't like it, don't go back and try another site. Nothing says you only have to play on 1 site. At one time, I played on about 6 different turn-based game sites.
coan.net: he threw me out the day he read my private note from another player asking me if I was going to pay.. When I said no I didnt think so, to this other player ( who also got tossed out the day I did) he locked us out.. when I emailed him his reply was why bother since I wasnt going to pay.. even tho he said in the beginning that there were going to pay and free accounts.. Hes one messed up dude.