danoschek: some censoring will always take place in social aspects ... to keep things social one would have to be able to think from another persons point of view and determine what reaction might be most likely and decide if thats the reaction one is aiming for, if not then one should censor himself, or when one is mistaken and the reaction would certainly not be one which would be building a social aspect which could be desired in the environment then another censoring could take place

(where is juetland ? i never heard of that ;))