Please keep things positive. Best advise I believe is to try out different sites. Find what works well for you. If you don't like it, don't go back and try another site. Nothing says you only have to play on 1 site. At one time, I played on about 6 different turn-based game sites.
Nothingness: yea, I agreed...and I quit surfing the facebook a month ago. But, I need to check weekly to see if my friends and family left me any Inbox messages.