Please keep things positive. Best advise I believe is to try out different sites. Find what works well for you. If you don't like it, don't go back and try another site. Nothing says you only have to play on 1 site. At one time, I played on about 6 different turn-based game sites.
coan.net: I was refered to that site by a friend,I think they get rewarded for bringing in new members.I decided to let them keep my trial 5 dollar membership after the owner started asking my friend personal questions about me,very strange