DamnCat: well I don't really want to go on with this but now that you have asked....here goes....

You said, ****If you have beef with someone, take it with that person and not everyone else around you****
I said you should take your own advice.

You brought it to a public board instead of taking it to the person you had a beef with. I don't know how to explain it any further without getting MYSELF into trouble and goodness knows that happens enough when it takes the fancy of some